How to attract he opposite sex, huh? You know being where I am now I am faced with that challenge again. I personally think that I am not drop dead gorgeous. I'm not bad looking either. I do not think that I will go for the "bar scene" though it's just too crowded. I have met a few guys online that I might meet in person. I am not sure about how I will do it later though. I personally think that it will just happen. I'm not really going to go out there and look for it. Sure if I see a cute guy I might try to start a conversation. There is always the good stand by "do you know the time" or "how do you get here" There is always that initial Physical attraction but I personally go for the personality (oh sure a good set of buns is nice too) I look for common interests to so I might try to meet a guy at the museum, or even a good bookstore. I think that the best way to attract someone is to just be yourself. Sure I care about what I look like but I am not going to change myself to get a guy. I have learned that you need to have common interests to keep a relationship going.

I am not sure if this is what you meant by the topic but these are my thoughts..LOL.. I am who I am.